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Hair to heir


Rohan had only planned to stay for two days.


It was a simple family visit—a small function at his grandmother’s ancestral home in Tanjore. His parents were too busy with work, so he was sent in their place. “Just represent the family, beta,” his mother had said. “It’s only for the weekend.”


He packed light. A couple of jeans, shirts, and his earbuds. He didn’t think much of it—until he arrived.


The house was huge and old, with wide verandas and a courtyard that glowed orange in the evening light. A few women in the house welcomed him with warm smiles, but it was Paati—his father’s aunt—who ruled the space. She was elegant in her crisp Kanjeevaram saree, her silver-streaked braid longer than he’d ever seen on anyone her age.


“Rohan has grown up,” she said, pulling him into a hug. “But so thin. You’ll eat properly while you’re here.”


He smiled politely, unsure how to navigate her fierce energy. But the real surprise came the next morning.


They were preparing for a small pooja to honor their ancestors. One of the girls from the extended family was meant to play the role of “Lakshmi”—a symbolic daughter figure offering prayers—but she had taken ill. Paati looked distressed.


“Without a girl to represent Lakshmi, the ritual is incomplete.”


A few eyes turned toward Rohan.


He blinked. “Me?”


Meenakshi akka, a lively cousin in her twenties, laughed. “Just for the pooja! You can sit quietly, we’ll do the dressing.”


He resisted at first. But something about their energy, their playfulness, and Paati’s serious gaze made him pause. He nodded, hesitantly.


That one nod began everything.


In Paati’s room, Meenakshi and her friends helped him undress. A padded blouse and petticoat came first, then a saree in soft temple cotton. Meenakshi was surprisingly gentle.


“You have a delicate face,” she said, tying the petticoat tightly. “We’ll just enhance it.”


But the challenge was his hair—it was just long enough to brush his neck. “Don’t worry,” she grinned. “We have extensions.”


They clipped in wefts of thick, black hair—layer by layer—until it reached past his waist. Then she combed through it, oiled it slightly with coconut oil, and began braiding slowly. The feeling was unreal. Each tug was a strange, soothing pressure against his scalp. The braid pulled softly against the back of his neck, swinging as he moved.


When he stood before the mirror, he was stunned. A soft-faced girl in a rust-orange saree, with a thick, gleaming braid trailing down her back, stared back.


“Lakshmi,” Paati said quietly from behind. “You remind me of her.”


He didn’t know who she meant. But something in her tone made him stay quiet.


The pooja passed without issue. Rohan—now Lakshmi—sat silently, palms folded, while the priest chanted mantras. Everyone smiled politely, and no one questioned the illusion.


But after the ritual ended, Paati came to him and touched his cheek.


“Stay a few more days,” she said softly. “Just till the festival is over. We need help around the house. And Lakshmi brings peace to this home.”


He should’ve said no. But something inside him wanted to stay.


And so he did.


Every morning, Meenakshi helped dress him. They didn’t remove the extensions at first—just oiled them regularly, combed gently, and re-braided. She taught him to fold sarees, how to pin the pallu, and how to carry himself. But over time, something changed.


Rohan began waking up early, brushing his hair himself before Meenakshi could come. He learned how to oil his scalp with his own hands, how to section and twist strands smoothly. Even without the braid, he’d sometimes wear his hair loose in the evenings, feeling it brush against his back as he moved.


What began as costume started feeling like skin.


Over the weeks, his real hair grew. No longer just neck-length, it touched his shoulders, then the upper back. He took care of it obsessively—herbal washes, towel-drying in sunlight, and oiling every two days. Soon, they stopped using extensions altogether. One morning, after his bath, he stepped out with freshly washed hair drying freely over his blouse. Paati saw him, and smiled.


“You’ve grown into her,” she said.


He didn’t ask who she meant anymore. Lakshmi, perhaps, wasn’t just a name. She was becoming a role, a rhythm, a version of himself that felt startlingly natural.


Life in the house shifted gently around him. He swept the courtyard in the mornings, drew rangoli with rice flour at the entrance. He helped cook, learned to fold clothes in the veranda, and sat in the evenings braiding jasmine flowers into his soft plaits.


But it wasn’t just chores. There were unexpected moments too.


One afternoon, while trying a high bun for the first time, the mirror fell. Arun—Meenakshi’s friend who often helped around the house—rushed in.


“Are you okay?” he asked, pausing when he saw her.


She had twisted her long hair into a bun that sat snug at the crown of her head, with a few soft tendrils curling around her face. She was barefoot, in a light cotton saree, her cheeks flushed from the effort.


“I… I was just trying something new,” she said quietly.


He bent down to pick up the mirror, eyes lingering. “You look beautiful like this.”


That night, she wore the bun again. And every time he was nearby, she felt a flutter deep in her stomach.


There were more moments like that. A rain-soaked afternoon when she had to run barefoot from the well to the veranda, her open hair clinging to her back. The evening he handed her a rose quietly and said, “It’ll suit your braid tomorrow.”


And every time, she blushed—not because she felt exposed, but because she felt seen.


By the end of the month, her hair reached past her mid-back. She had learned to twist it into a side bun, tie it into a low ponytail for chores, and braid it in four styles—classic, fishtail, loose three-strand, and temple knot.


One morning, as Paati combed through her damp strands, she said, “There’s a small ceremony happening soon. For the house deity. We’ll invite the neighbors. I want you to perform the aarati.”


Lakshmi’s heart raced.


“In front of everyone?”


“Yes,” Paati said, tying her braid tightly. “You are part of this house now.”


The day of the ceremony arrived. Lakshmi wore a deep maroon saree with gold trim, bangles that matched, and jasmine strung through her braid, which reached just past her waist now—no extensions.


As the conch blew and she lit the lamp, the air around her fell silent. She stepped forward, her anklets gently chiming, her braid swaying softly with each step. The faces in the crowd smiled at her—not questioning, not confused.


Just accepting.


Later, as guests left and the courtyard emptied, Paati hugged her close.


“You’ve brought grace back into this home,” she whispered.


And Lakshmi, for the first time, didn’t feel like she was playing a part.


She was home.


A few weeks after the ceremony, word began to spread in the neighborhood. The elegant young woman in Paati’s home—the one who did the aarati with such poise—had caught many eyes. Some assumed she was Paati’s granddaughter. Others simply admired her grace, especially the way her long, oiled braid shimmered in the sun as she swept the front steps or drew rangoli in the morning.


It wasn’t long before a family from the adjacent street came with a proposal.


The boy, Harish, was well-mannered and worked with a tech firm in Chennai. His parents had seen Lakshmi during the temple function and quietly inquired about her. One day, Paati called Lakshmi to her room.


“They’ve asked for a meeting,” she said gently. “Just to see.”


Lakshmi froze.


“You don’t have to say yes,” Paati continued. “But they saw something pure in you. So did I. If you wish, we can decline.”


Lakshmi stayed quiet for a long moment. Then she looked up. “Will I have to... dress up properly?”


Paati chuckled. “Of course. You’re the girl of this house, aren’t you?”


Preparations began early that morning. Meenakshi came to help, grinning ear to ear. “You’ll look like a dream.”


They picked a light peach silk saree with tiny golden buttas. It was soft and elegant—not too flashy, not too plain. Meenakshi oiled Lakshmi’s hair gently, combing it from root to tip. The strands had grown beautifully now—past her waist, thick and soft from the regular care. She parted it in the center, braided it in a soft three-strand plait, and added a delicate chain of jasmine buds woven through.


Lakshmi sat on the floor as Meenakshi applied a little foundation, subtle kajal, a bindi, and soft pink lipstick. She wore glass bangles and small jhumkas that swayed with every turn of her head. When she finally stood in front of the mirror, she barely recognized herself—but in a good way.


The meeting took place in the small hall. Harish was polite, clean-cut, and calm. His mother complimented Lakshmi’s cooking after tasting the sweet she had helped make. His father nodded approvingly. But it was Harish’s glance—quiet and genuine—that lingered. He spoke little, but looked at her braid once, smiled, and then politely asked if they could talk alone on the veranda.


Nervous, Lakshmi followed.


He leaned against the pillar and said, “I don’t know what your story is. But I’ve seen you at the temple, and I felt something... peaceful.”


She blinked, unsure how to reply.


He smiled. “I like peace. And grace. And people who are genuine. I’m not asking anything now. Just—would you come out with me tomorrow? Just to get to know each other?”


Paati agreed without hesitation. “He has manners,” she said. “Let’s see how you feel.”


The next day, Lakshmi dressed in a sky-blue cotton saree and kept her hair open—a first for a day outside. She had conditioned it the night before, and the silky strands flowed down her back, swaying freely with every step. Harish took her to a quiet cafe near the river. They talked—at first about work, then books, food, dreams.


At one point, the wind blew her hair across her face, and Harish gently tucked a strand behind her ear.


“You look happy,” he said. “Like this is who you were meant to be.”


She turned her face away, heart fluttering.


They walked along the riverbank after lunch. She held her saree pleats in one hand and let her hair sway in the breeze. He didn’t touch her, didn’t crowd her—just walked beside her with an ease that made her feel seen, not judged.


That evening, as they sat on a low stone bench, he said quietly, “I’d like to meet you again. No pressure. But I hope you’ll say yes.”


She nodded, cheeks warm.


Weeks passed. They spoke often—late-night messages, occasional calls. He never asked questions she wasn’t ready to answer. And in that space, Lakshmi bloomed. Her hair grew longer still, her confidence deeper. She began experimenting with new styles—low buns for housework, side braids for temple visits, soft ponytails with a middle part when she watered the tulsi plant.


Then, one day, Paati made a quiet phone call.


To Rohan’s parents.


It wasn’t easy. His mother refused at first. “What are you saying? My son—what is this joke?”


But Paati didn’t yell. She simply said, “You should come meet your daughter.”


After two weeks of silence, they arrived.


Lakshmi was in a simple green saree, her long braid pinned with a single jasmine strand, feet bare, face calm. Her father stared, speechless. Her mother looked stricken.


“Is this what you’ve become?” she whispered.


Lakshmi stepped forward. “No. This is who I’ve discovered I was all along.”


Paati placed a hand on her shoulder. “And she’s loved. Respected. Desired.”


The silence hung thick. Then her father cleared his throat. “You seem... happy.”


Her mother’s eyes welled. She looked at the braid, the soft hands, the glow in her daughter’s face.


“I don’t understand it,” she said. “But I see you. And I think… you are real.”


That was enough.


Months later, with the full support of both families, the wedding took place in the very courtyard where Lakshmi once drew rangoli as a helper.


Now, she was the bride.


Her braid was coiled into a thick, fragrant bun, pinned with strings of jasmine, held with golden clips. She wore a red silk saree, heavy with zari. And as she walked down the steps, anklets chiming, eyes lowered, Harish waited with folded hands and a quiet smile.


The chants began. The sacred fire flickered.


And Lakshmi, once a visitor in borrowed clothes, now stood as the woman of the house—with a heart full of love, and hair that told the story of every step she took to become herself.


The wedding passed in a blur of rituals, relatives, and whispered blessings. When the final flower petals had been swept up and the last guest departed, the house finally fell into a gentle silence.


Lakshmi sat at the edge of the bed in her new room—their room now. The heavy red saree still clung to her, and her bun, though pinned tightly with dozens of jasmine strings, had begun to ache her scalp.


Harish entered a few moments later, dressed simply now in a white kurta-pajama, freshly bathed. He looked calm, a little shy perhaps, but smiling gently.


"You must be exhausted," he said, walking over slowly.


Lakshmi nodded, her bangles softly clinking as she looked down at her hands. Her palms still held the fading maroon tint of mehndi, and the thick kohl around her eyes gave her a newly-married glow. But beneath all of it, she felt nervous. Not afraid—just unfamiliar.


Harish sat beside her, not too close. “Can I help?” he asked, noticing her shift a little from the hairpins digging into her scalp.


She gave a quiet nod.


He reached behind her gently, fingers brushing against the fragrant jasmine that had wilted slightly after hours of rituals. One by one, he began removing the pins. The closeness made her heart flutter—each touch feather-light, each breath quiet. As he uncoiled the bun, her hair tumbled down heavily across her back.


She exhaled with relief.


“So long…” he murmured.


She looked at him through the mirror, her loose hair now cascading down past her waist.


He smiled, brushing his fingers lightly over the strands. “It suits you. It’s soft.”


She blushed but didn’t pull away.


“I used to imagine moments like this,” she whispered. “But I never thought I’d be allowed to live them.”


He paused for a beat, then said softly, “You’re allowed now. And I want to give you space to live every part of yourself.”


There was no rush. No demands. Just the warm lamp light, the scent of jasmine and sandalwood, and the soft creak of the bed as they both lay side by side, fully dressed, just holding hands. Their fingers intertwined slowly, comfortably.


That night, they didn’t do more than that.


But in the stillness, Lakshmi felt something begin to blossom—trust, desire, and a deep, deep comfort she’d never known.



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Married life settled in gently over the following weeks. Lakshmi woke early each morning, wrapped in a soft cotton saree, her hair in a low, oiled braid. She swept the front porch, drew kolams with rice paste, and lit the lamp in the puja room. Harish often watched from the kitchen doorway, sipping his coffee.


"You're becoming very traditional," he teased one morning.


"I’m becoming myself," she replied with a smile, brushing a loose strand of hair behind her ear.


Hair care became a part of her everyday ritual. Twice a week, she oiled her scalp with warm coconut oil, massaging it in slow, circular motions. On Sundays, she let Harish do it. He would sit behind her on the veranda floor while she sat cross-legged in her cotton blouse and petticoat, her hair flowing down like a river.


He would run his fingers through, separating sections with care, rubbing the oil in gently while she closed her eyes and leaned into the feeling.


“You really love my hair, don’t you?” she’d ask with a smirk.


He would laugh. “I love everything about you. But yes—your hair has a magic of its own.”


She experimented with styles now—classic braids for home, neat low buns when guests visited, open hair on evenings when the breeze was gentle. Once, during a sudden rain, she stepped out to fetch the drying clothes and came in soaked—her long, open hair clinging to her back, dripping.


Harish stood frozen at the doorway. She giggled. “Don’t stare.”


“I can’t help it,” he said, handing her a towel, brushing her wet fringe from her face.


That night, as they sat in bed, she finally leaned in. Her hair, still damp, wrapped over her shoulder like a black scarf. Their kiss was soft, unhurried. Hands explored gently, learning the landscape of each other’s affection. She felt his fingers graze her back, brushing over the silk of her blouse, and then the curve of her waist. Her own hand rested on his chest, heartbeat syncing.


“You’re beautiful,” he whispered.


She touched his face. “I never thought anyone would say that to me—like they meant it.”


“I mean it. Every day.”


That night, they lay together under the soft quilt. Her long hair spread over the pillow, some of it trailing across his shoulder. He ran his fingers through it again, slowly, as they whispered until sleep found them.


In the morning, she tied it in a loose ponytail while preparing breakfast. When he came in, he wrapped his arms around her waist from behind, resting his chin on her shoulder.


“I think I’ve fallen for my wife,” he murmured.


Lakshmi laughed, leaning back into him. “Good. Because she’s already in love with her husband.”

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